(Closed) My whole life is just kind of… disintegrating.

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
3601 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

*hugs* sorry you are feeling this way. I know what it’s like to have a disintegrating life (thankfully, mine is no longer free-falling), and If you just want to vent, you know where the PM button is. 

Post # 4
2512 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Sorry you are feeling so stressed.

Remember after the rain there is usually a lovely rainbow and sunshine so hopefully the rain will end soon!

Post # 5
744 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Oh, honey… {{{hugs}}} I know the feeling of seeing everything in your life falling apart one piece after another. It sucks. Do you have any friends living near by that could support you?

Post # 6
94 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2011 - Hunter's Ridge, Princeton, IL

Awe, I’m sorry all of this is happening (and all at once). You’re so right – when it rains, it POURS.

I’d say right now concentrate on school and throw your energy into things you love. Enjoy the people you’re close to while you can & cross the other bridges when you get to them.

And by the way – good on your stepdad for the promotion AND good on Mr. Fish for his decision to join the Marines 🙂 Things happen for a reason, right?

Post # 7
5110 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2011

Oh hunnie. It sounds like you need a hug! And maybe a glass of vino 🙂 I can only imagine how hard that is. Feeling like everyone is leaving and all at once is hard. I dont have much advice as I have not been through this as of yet. But things will get better and you will adjust to the feeling that you are having. It gets better *hugs*

Post # 8
192 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

It’ll be ok. Instead of thinking about how everything is falling apart, think about all the new opportunities you have! You can stay there and live on your own, you can go to Huntington and meet new people, or go somewhere entirely new nearer your FH! Everything will work itself out in the end.

Post # 9
2907 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

@Miss Fish:Hugs hugs hugs. If you ever need a marine wife to talk to, PM me.

There’s a whole lot of interesting stuff being a marine wife, dealing with deployments, etc. There are a lot of us, so we know at least part of what you’re going through.

Go on base, join the FRO’s facebook group, talk to the FRO (family readiness officer) on base about events. There are TONS of events if you can get to base.



You need a little time out for yourself. You need to think about those over a longer time period. Let yourself relax, and what you really want will come out. With your family moving away, you still have your friends at school. And once you’re married (or near base and engaged) you have the marine wives. It’s a lot to deal with, but you can do it!

Post # 10
7587 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

@Miss Fish: Oh goodness this stinks.  Is there anyway to go stay with Mr. Fish? or near Mr. Fish?

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