- 10 years ago
- Wedding: June 2011
yes i got back home last week:( my sister was released from lynwood womens facility. and since she was released they want to do a reunification program with her and the kids. so i was automatcially denied the babies:( so they are officially in foster care. the judge and attorney state to reunite them can take up to a year, my sister was ordered to take 6 court appointed classes. but the classes all have a 65 dollar enrollment fee and cost 15 dollars eacha week!!WTF how is anyone supposed to pay that, and on top of it my sister lives off of state assistance so now that she doesnt have the kids its been dropped so she is also loosing her apt so even if she gets the kids back she cant as she doesnt have a home. my family and i tried to help her as much as possible, paid her 350 cell phone bill, paid for half a months rent which in downtown la is ridiculous, her gas and electric, a month buss/metro card to get to court, her parenting classes, as my sister does not drive or own a car. she has been granted to see the kids once a week for an hour.. which we are not happy about but at least its something. my sister should be graduating in 2 months to become a medical assistat so hopefully that will help. and her no good husband is still in mexico and wants nothing to do with any of them. the boyfriend that caused all of this changed his number and has disappeared. but all charged on my sis has been dropped and now there is an investigator checking into everything. so this is still ongoing. its this lasts for more then 6 months we will be trying to et the case moved to new mexico where i am so i automatically get the kids and my sister can get an apt and start working. but we shall see, im just really sad i didnt get to even see the kids, ive was out of work for 2 weeks, so that means no paycheck for me and that means wedding plans have been affected:( And allstate was not happy at the fact i was gone for 2 weeks when i explained to my Groomsmen what happened and what i was going there for and they still wrote me up and now im on notice at work!!!! so im terrified to loose my job they are being really mean to me about it all, and are saying i really didnt need to go and i basicaly took an unauthroized vacation. ive been a claims processor for over 2 years and hey just treat us like crap!!!!! im so sick of it!!!. so right now i am in the process of looking for another job as i come home crying everyday and just tired of taking claims from mean people who call in and just yell and curse me out. so please keep my neice and nephew in your prayers.