(Closed) Name Change–is anyone else's mom scandalized?

posted 6 years ago in Traditions
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

I think we are sisters.  My brother and I have my mom’s last name as our middle name!  His wife didn’t take my brother’s last name when they were married…but I plan to take my fiance’s.  I don’t really care about it, actually.  I will keep my real name professionally, and use his in other ways, I guess.  My mom did say she would be disappointed, but she’s not going crazy!  

Post # 4
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Blushing bee

It is your choice.  My son’s Fiance is not taking his last name and that is no business of anyone but the two of them.  Stick to your plan!

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

my mom got all misty-eyed when I told her I was completely dropping my last name for DH’s, citing “we’re going to be so disconnected!” as a reason. I found it strange – she never took my dad’s name! So uhh … we never shared a last name *facepalm*

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper

It’s a shame she doesn’t realize that her IL’s were probably scandalized when she DIDN’T take your Dad’s last name, and so it comes full circle. She’ll get over it.

Post # 8
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3692 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

She got to choose which last name to use.  You get to choose yours.  I think it’s a tad hypocritical of her to be upset.

Post # 9
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2009 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Peoples names are their personal business!!!

Its not a democacy.

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012 - Pippin Hill Farm & Vineyards

In her day, she did something that probably scandalized her mother (didn’t change her name).  Just deserts? 🙂

Post # 11
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

It’s your choice, just like keeping her name was her choice. While I respect your mother’s opinion, it really isn’t up to her or any of her business.  

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

My mom was pretty upset too! Mainly because my maiden name was a much prettier name than my married name.

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