(Closed) Name change questions..

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

You are not required to do anything.  What would you like to do?

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I think you should talk to your Fiance about it but other than that do what you want.

Post # 6
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Newbee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@Panda4Ever:  I feel like it was important enough for him to have both and that you should ask him what he wants since you are marrying him. I think sometimes that’s the only  plus side for men. They have the pleasure of giving the person they love their lastname. But yes you can do whatever you want I would just consider he’s thoughts as well.

Post # 7
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Blushing bee

@Panda4Ever:  Wikipedia (when it’s back online… I’m in Australia so I have no idea when the black out will end) have a really good article about all the different ways you can use hyphenated names.

It’s completely up to you, I think consult with your Fiance but don’t forget you’re the one changing your identity… It should be a completely comfortable change!

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I would discuss it with your Fiance. I think it may be completely fine with him, but on the other hand he may not want it, but theres always the option of yours and his mothers if he is going to continue with his current last name!

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

I’d talk to your FI about it.  I don’t think it’s relevant whether you have met his father/ and or like that side of the family or not, but more importantly what it’s going to mean for you and your Fiance and potentially children later on.

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