(Closed) naming a baby before it is born

posted 8 years ago in Babies
  • poll: Did you, or do you plan to, call your unborn baby by its future name?

    Yes

    No

    Not sure

    Yes but then we changed our minds on the name at birth

  • Post # 32
    Member
    7899 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: March 2012 - Pelican Grand Beach Resort

    I honestly think it’s really weird to give a name to a person that it will have its entire life before you meet it. We have some names in mind, but we will wait until we meet our child (in about 10 days) before we settle on one. We’ve been calling him/her Littlefoot as a placeholder.

    ETA: on a practical note, you can avoid a lot of mean comments by waiting too because people will freely comment on how much they don’t like the name if the baby is still in your belly because they think it’s still negotiable. People tend to keep their mouths shut about it if the name is on the birth certificate.

    Post # 33
    Member
    2861 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    I don’t like when people call the baby a name or a nickname before it’s born. Yes I am a big ole funhater. It’s just weird to me. I refer to any child in utero as baby or babies and can’t bring myself to call them anything else except for sometimes in the pregnant Moms check in threads because I feel odd being the only one NOT doing it.

    Post # 34
    Member
    1652 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Yes we have named ours and are referring to her by the name. It just happened. I like it actually, makes her more real and in no way will take away from the day she is born.

    Post # 35
    Member
    1474 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    Ok, I broke this… Sort of. Baby has a first name, but middle names are still up in the air. We’ll choose one when we meet him. However, we don’t call him by that name yet. He’s ‘the baby’ til he’s born. 

    Post # 36
    Member
    1760 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    We have a girl first name picked out, and hubby has used that on occassion to talk to the baby.  We are struggling with boy names, and will pick one out once we have the gender scan if we have too.  We probably will tell close family but still refer to the baby as “baby” until he/she is born.  I’m afraid to get monogramed stuff and have the baby come out and look nothing like that name. 

    Post # 37
    Member
    641 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2015

    Count me in the naming before birth category: Fiance and I named our first child while we were caught in outrageous traffic one day. 2 hours later, we discovered we could only really on agree on Seth and Amelia! That was before we were even engaged. We don’t plan on TTC for another 3 years at least!

    Post # 38
    Member
    641 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2015

    View original reply
    @Moderate Mouse:  YAY for Stormageddon! I love that episode of Dr. Who!

    Post # 39
    Member
    8880 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

    DH and I will do this. We are TTC and already have names picked out. Once we are PG and know if it’s a boy or a girl we’ll use the name.

    Post # 40
    Member
    2825 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    We are planning on being team green, so we won’t be able to do this… And while it doesn’t bother me when people do, my husband and I are far to indecisive to commit to a name until after the baby is born and we absolutely have to. lol  And I’d like to see the baby first, my friend took two days to get to know her son before she named him, and one blogger took 2 or 3 days just to decide (her husband was nameless for 6 weeks when he was born!).  I know I’ll either be struck with “this is the right name” as soon as I see them, or I’ll hmm and haw about it for days on end. But I’ll definitely need to wait.

    The topic ‘naming a baby before it is born’ is closed to new replies.

    Find Amazing Vendors