(Closed) nasty comments about no wedding band…

posted 8 years ago in Rings
Post # 16
Member
4474 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

These people are being catty and bullies.  It’s unfortunate that some people find it so necessary to put others down.

 

Re: RSVP, every bride seems to have that problem; check out all the threads on WB dedicated to that.

 

Re: wedding band, it’s a piece of metal.  If people think marriage is defined by a piece of metal they need to revisit the definition of marriage.

 

Re: honeymoon.  Like someone else said, it’s an “extra”.  For centuries people have gotten married, and not all of them have gone on honeymoons.  Besides, you can go on your honeymoon at any time.  My friend’s honeymoon was a year after her wedding!

 

Post # 17
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1542 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@SimplyChic11:  Ugh, don’t you hate ignorant people?

I’ve had somerude comments about what we’re not having (some from my mom, lol).

The wedding band thing, well we chose not to have them, I like to see peoples bands but my groom doesn’t want want and I don’t feel like having one if he doesn’t, is our choice, deal with it or ignore it. Even some ladies here in the Bee have been rude about it, but the best is to focuse on your marriage and your love and your happines and let the haters hate while ignoring them.

Post # 18
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1542 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@SimplyChic11:  Ugh, don’t you hate ignorant people?

I’ve had somerude comments about what we’re not having (some from my mom, lol).

The wedding band thing, well we chose not to have them, I like to see peoples bands but my groom doesn’t want want and I don’t feel like having one if he doesn’t, is our choice, deal with it or ignore it. Even some ladies here in the Bee have been rude about it, but the best is to focuse on your marriage and your love and your happines and let the haters hate while ignoring them.

Post # 19
Member
1542 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@MapleMoose:  Maybe they are jealous because you have something real and meaningful with the person you love.

Lol, I was thinking the same thing.

Post # 20
Member
1271 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

what a bunch of jerks.  i was in grad school when i married Darling Husband1, and i got a lot of flack from collegues for changing my name.  why people can’t keep their rude and judgmental thoughts to themselves it beyond me.

Post # 21
Member
732 posts
Busy bee

UGH! I am so sorry, I feel for you. Everyone knows Fiance and I will have a long engagement (like, 2 years at least) because we both are really focused on getting out of school. So people tell me ALL THE TIME that we aren’t really engaged because technically we are not planning our wedding yet, and it’s just rude! The last time someone said that to me, I shoved my ring right in her face and said “Are we still not really engaged?” HA!

Post # 22
Member
1497 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

People are idiots.

Post # 23
Member
1902 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Jealous much? Ignore them, you will shine on!!

Post # 25
Member
882 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Wow some people are crazy. All that matters, is the love you guys share.

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