(Closed) Nasty email from one of the in-laws

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

It could be something he doesn’t want to drag you into, thus keeping it inside. Try doing something to help him take his mind off of it and bring attention to the love you have for each other. Love is very helpful in calming anger 🙂

Post # 4
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

Guys don’t like to talk about stuff. Just let him know that if he does want to share it with you, that you are there and you will listen without trying to fix it. It seems like he wants to try to fix this himself. In time, he will probably come around to talk about it with you. He probably just doesn’t want you to offer him ways to fix it right now. He wants to do it on his own.

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I agree with noritake. My honey will keep stuff from me cuz he knows that we both have that attitude that if one us fights we both fight and he knows what a pistol I can be.

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2008

yeah my guy doesn’t like talking about things either, when he’s upset or hurt he just holds it in and sometimes just wants to be with me and not worry that I’ll nag him about telling me stuff. 

like Kies said, it could be something he doesn’t want to drag you into… a lot of times my fi knows that I’ll be equally upset if he tells me something right away, so he’ll wait and often it turns out a lot better that way… he’s probably not talking because he loves you and knows you’re upset about how his family is treating you and your wedding.

sorry for all the drama :(:(:(

 

and ps. I don’t think 6 hours is too long of a drive for a wedding! My fi’s family has to come to Minnesota all the way from NY!!

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Im sorry that you have to go through that. My Fiance does the whole not venting thing. He keeps it all bottled up until something sets him off. I would personally just not ask about it, because it may be something that you dont want to hear. You should be enjoying your wedding day.

 

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