(Closed) Nasty message! Anyone else?

posted 5 years ago in Weddingbee
Post # 3
1572 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

what did they message you for?

I haven’t received anything like that, but I did receive a message from another user, saying they are photographers and would LOVE to shoot my wedding for free, just the basic travel incidentals to be covered. I looked at the website they provided, and they had nice pics, but their packages were listed as starting at $2800… so WHY are they offering to do my wedding for free… and then the kicker. I am in TOronto, Ontario Canada. They are in North Carolina…. umm… NO.

Post # 4
1877 posts
Buzzing bee

@JrzyGurl:  Did you report the user?  I have never heard of this. 

Post # 5
46678 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@JrzyGurl:  Just report them to the mods.

Post # 6
9916 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

I got a message from a poster who called me a bitch…and I am not sure why.  So I ignored it.  Who cares?  People are dumb.

Post # 7
400 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@Baroness_Meg:  I too would love an expenses paid trip to Toronto, but I’ve never tried to pretend to shoot wedding pictures to get one 🙂

Post # 8
1193 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@Baroness_Meg:  I know those photags and I used them. They messaged me out of the blue as well but I checked them out and booked them.  So while their methods are nonconventional their work is awesome and affordable. They were likely just wanted to travel to Canada and were willing to shot your wedding at cost to do so. They traveled out of state for me at no cost just for my 2hr intimate ceremony. 


Post # 9
9115 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

I enjoy crap like this. I wish more rude people would PM me. Oh well. Just report it to the mods and they’ll likely banhammer the person.

Post # 10
3194 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@JrzyGurl:  sounds like a troll. they probably creep the posts and then PM people rude messages for fun. just report them.

Post # 13
1729 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

There have been weird hacked messages recently. Don’t take any of it personally, it’s just trolls and hackers and weirdos who aren’t real Bees.

Post # 14
1877 posts
Buzzing bee

@JrzyGurl:  I think you post a message to the site operators like this bee did:

“posted 2 days ago in Other TechnicalAdd this topic to your favorites (?)

Hi Wedding Bee coordinators,

I wanted to alert you to a user name that sent me a message that feels very fradulant. It came from Roch20.

Thanks so much! Schoolhouse

posted by schoolhouse (message) 2 days agoFlag

1 Answer

Would you mind posting the PM here, just so we can confirm?  Thanks!

Here is the link to that post:



Post # 15
159 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

@Baroness_Meg:  I had the same people message me and my wedding is in New Zealand, I could get the best photographer and videographer in NZ for what their travel costs would be.

Post # 16
240 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@Baroness_Meg:  I got the same offer for free photographers….right after I paid over $5k for mine. Oh Murphy’s Law. 

Interesting premise but it made me think, can’t they just back out if they want? Get a paying gig in NC for that day and bail on me?

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