(Closed) Natural (kiny curly) Hair Dilemma

posted 6 years ago in African-American
  • poll: What Hair?
    Beyonce hair, do what YOU want on your day : (15 votes)
    21 %
    Get the curly sew in, compromise with SO : (24 votes)
    34 %
    stay short and curly, exactly how he loves you now...and accessorize : (31 votes)
    44 %
  • Post # 3
    1583 posts
    Bumble bee

    @CarpefnDiem:  I am transitioning but I love your hair as is! It is sexy and effortless looking. My second choice would be the curly sew in because it still looks like your hair. Buckets of weave like beyonce are so unneccesary!

    Post # 4
    418 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: March 2013

    I think you’re gorgeous no matter WHAT you do. How about trying a style on for size, let him see what it looks like on you (before the wedding)…

    maybe he’ll change his mind.

    Post # 5
    1460 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    Okay…I’m not AA but I have naturally very curly hair and I absotively love your hair short.  It opens up your face and lets your beauty shine.  You know as well as I do that curly hair can be really overpowering sometimes and the more you have the more power it has.  LOL 

    Try some accessories and see how you like it.  I’ll bet you can find something that makes you even more beautiful. 

    Post # 9
    164 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: February 2013

    I LOVE your old hair.

    Personally, even though Beyonce’s hair is pretty I wouldn’t do it for your wedding because it’s so drastically different than your normal look. I’m not AA either but it always amazes me how my AA friends look like a completely different person when they relax their hair (it really does affect how your face looks).

    You want to look like the YOU that your Fiance knows on your wedding day, so I wouldn’t change anything too much. Maybe a compromised length between the old hair and the new? 

    Post # 11
    660 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I can see why he LOVES your hair as is, you look beautiful. Good looking couple btw. I am not AA but do have long wavy/curly hair and I can look very different if its straight, lighly curled or round brushed. Although for our wedding I considered extensions for SUPER long fairytale hair I decided to look like myself. While the  Beyonce style is lovely it seems too dramatically different from the current you. I guess to really know you could try a wig?…

    Post # 13
    6741 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2014


    Ok – that being said, why don’t you start growing your hair out now?  Then you can always add extentions later to get the look you want.  He’s going to love you no matter what.  If you’re tired of the short hair, start growing it and he will get used to it. If you change your mind right before the wedding, you can always cut it!

    My Fiance says he hates me blonde, but he keeps pointing out blonde pix of me where I look hot.  Men.. they don’t know anything ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 16
    418 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: March 2013

    @CarpefnDiem:  I know girl. I’m AA and I cut my hair short once thinking that was the thing to do. It was cute for a minute, but I missed my hair. Shoot, I just came back from the store buying hair. 

    I think you should try some stuff. Increase the length little by little and see what he likes/doesn’t like.

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