(Closed) Nearly 1 year ago i walked..

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
498 posts
Helper bee

@NickiBee:  That is so awesome. I actually read your walk post recently and always hoped everything worked out for you. Glad to hear you found someone that makes you happy. What a great message for the New Year ;).  

Happy New Year!

Post # 4
12247 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

LOVE this post! So happy you found someone who can’t wait to marry you!

Post # 5
217 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@NickiBee:  I am SO happy for you!!  It sounds like you made the right decision and are living life with no regrets (the only way to live, in my opinion ๐Ÿ˜‰ ).  Congratulations to you!

Post # 6
9954 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

To @NickiBee:  Awesome post !!

CONGRATULATIONS on your life… sounds like things have worked out very well… FOR THE BETTER

Sometimes pulling the plug, can indeed be the best solution

Leaving & Starting Over is NEVER easy (I did it in my 40s)… it can certainly be easier tho the younger one is…

Sounds like you’ve met a WONDERFUL man… but better than what you had previously

Sometimes we have blinders on when inside a bad relationship, and cannot truly see how bad things truly were until we get out and move onto something much better

We somehow feel that clinging to the past and the “time that we’ve invested” is more important than our TRUE HAPPINESS

It isn’t

BRAVO to you for realizing that

Hopefully your words here will help more women realize they “need not settle” for anything less.

They truly DESERVE more.

I wish you much continued happiness… and thanks for sharing your life journey as an inspiration to others…

As you say there should be “no fight”… a healthy relationship flows a lot easier.


Post # 7
2517 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

๐Ÿ™‚  This is so excellent to read.  It sounds like you absolutely made the right decision and now you have the relationship you deserve!  I wish you all the best in your 30s.  So far, they have been my favourite decade! 

Post # 8
563 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2015 - Alexander Homestead

@NickiBee:  That is so profound and so wonderful for you to share this insight one year later. I have no doubt you will be an inspiration to someone else that can learn from your wisdom and remember that there is green grass on the other side. They have only to believe that they can achieve it and they will.

Congratulatins on your new wonderful, happy, and healthy relationship and I wish you both a very Happy and Exciting New Year! Smile

Post # 9
5955 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

I’m glad you shared an update and am so happy that making the hard choice has gone the right way for you.  All the best in your new relationship!

Post # 11
2180 posts
Buzzing bee

@NickiBee:  Really, it was almost a year ago?!? I remember reading that post right after you made it. Time flies!

I’m so happy to hear that you’re doing well and that you’ve found someone who is completely smitten with you! You deserve it, Nicki! I’m so very glad you shared this update and think it’s definitely inspiring to waiting bees. Hope to see you around here when you’re ready to be around more often ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 12
6256 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2014

I am so happy for you!

Post # 14
1270 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 1994

Good for you! I had a similar experience. Finally decided to not put up with b.s. in my future relationships and soon met my husband!

Post # 15
772 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@NickiBee:  I loved your story! I have a similar story and walking away led me straight to my awesome FI! I cant wait to hear about all the good things in store for you in 2014! 

Post # 16
180 posts
Blushing bee

@NickiBee:  I’m so happy to see your update and glad that you’re in a better place!!!  I hope you come around here more often!

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