(Closed) Nearly 40 – Eloping next week – scared of telling parents….

posted 6 years ago in Weddingbee
Post # 3
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2906 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I would tell them beforehand, just to avoid possible hurt feelings afterwards. I know my parents would be devastated if I got married without them at least knowing about it ahead of time, and that sort of hurt can cause a lot of drama and take a lot of time to get past. You obviously know your relationship with your parents better than I do, but I know mine would take a really long time to forgive me for getting married without telling them first. 

Post # 4
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1475 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

@Katiebklyn

Mostly this!

However, be prepared for how their response can impact your feelings/decisions…

Hope everything works out. Good Luck!

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