(Closed) Need a little reassurance

posted 6 years ago in Full Figured
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

You are absolutely not too big for that dress. You are, in fact, completely gorgeous in that dress.

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@ellisrobertson:  Very much agree with you on that one. It looks great.

Post # 5
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

@sburger555:  You are absolutely rockin’ that dress!!!

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

That dress looks great on you! Seriously, it hugs your curves really well!

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I just don’t see it… your curves are ROCKIN.

Sounds to me like she’s just swinging to hurt you, and coming up with things to say that she knows will get to you.

Don’t have much advice to give on how to handle that situation in general, but I can tell you that her comments about your weight and that dress were bold faced lies meant to tear you down.

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 1999

Some mums (like mine lol) are *sometimes* a *bit* rude about their daughters looks/style/body. My mum tells me things like ‘don’t go out in that youre legs are too fat’ or another lovely one ‘you look awfl from this angle’ etc. I don’t know WHY they do it, I think it is -in my case- their body issues rubbing off on you. They have (or had when they were younger) a similar figure to you and they wouldnt have worn it. BUT -hey, man- that was 20 or so years agao- course they wouldnt have worn it- it wasn’t in fashion. This is my nice explanation of why mums are horrid. When I have calmed down with my mums meanness I usually come to this conclusion (I like reasons).

 

Alternatively: bloody hell your mum was MEAN and quite bitchy and proper horrid to you about your dress. Ok, so you threw a spanned into her works but there was not need for her to spit her dummy out like a baby and cause massive ructions. (This is my first, intuative response after reading your post).

 

Supportively: Maaan, lady! You look great. Ok, youre not pin thin BUT you look BEAUTIFUL. Your skin is a fabulous colour and next to your dark hair you look like a classic beauty muse, Bottecchelli and Beautiful. So many people would kill to look like this! Your waist is teeny tiny and your figure is perfectly proportioned. I especially like the curve of your hips, going into your waist. You are doign something daring with that dress you are saying: ‘look at me. I’m beautiful, I’m marvellous, go ahead, stare at my arse all day, because it’s ACE’. Seriously I cannont convey to you how beautiful you look, but beyond this it is a classy dress with alot of intrest but it also does you huge justice. You are a woman, a girl and a wife simultaneously on your wedding day (reason I put ‘girl’ in is not to condesced but traditionally we were all to be shy, virginial and all of that before hand) but in addition, you are a muse. Your H2B will go wild with that dress, and all your friends and family (and even your mum – she was just saying hurtful things in the heat of the moment to wound, with prehaps a bit of jealousy at your self-power) will think ou are beautiful, because -and this is the honest truth from a freezing cold little room in a historic town in England- you ARE!.

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@mecattacow:  <—- I think I want you standing behind me everytime I have a bit of self doubt! LOL!!!! 🙂

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

You look amazing in your dress, wear it with confidence!

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

That dress is gorgeous and you have the absolute perfect body for it.  Buy your mom a Botticelli painting, she’s been looking at too much Vogue 🙂

Post # 13
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Bumble bee

@sburger555:  I’m not just saying this, you look amazing in your dress. You completely pull it off.

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

You look amazing in that dress! 

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I love what it is doing for your curves!

You look fantastic 

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013 - Creek club at ion, SC

i love it when i dont have to twist my words to make ppl feel good without lying 

 

That dress was made for you … theres just sthing about the way your carrying yourself in that pic that says wow so wear it with confidence

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