(Closed) need advice!!

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Definitely talk to him about it. Does he know all that? How long have you guys been together, maybe it’s just a matter of time for you to feel more comfortable around him? I had a hard time initiating sex too because I’m kind of shy, and it took me some time. I also found it’s easier if you are kind of playful about it and make it a bit of a game as opposed to more of a “sexual tiger” (i have no idea why that description came to my head or if it even makes sense to you but i’m just going to go with it! haha), which always felt awkward for me. 

good luck!!

Post # 5
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Anxiouspeanut: ah sorry you clearly say that in the last sentence of your original post!

it took me more than year to get over my shyness. i think talking helps and definitely try more playing and less “sex kitten” (i think that’s what i was looking for the first time!). 

Post # 6
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Start with a massage. I have yet to see that fail to turn into sex.

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2009

Did you try touching his penis?

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

@ATP2011: Did you try touching his penis?

I LOVE how simple and straight forward this solution really is! Hahaha!

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2009

@Anxiouspeanut:  Sorry, I didn’t mean just going in and grabbing it.  Glad you received hints, though.  That’s gotta be helpful.

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