(Closed) Need advice!

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I think I would send her a message on FB saying how nice it has been getting back in touch with her and you would love it if she would come to your wedding.  I don’t think it’s rude to ask her now, before you weren’t really close with her to invite her.

Post # 4
1325 posts
Bumble bee

I can see that being tricky…but I don’t think if she gets an invite she’s going to get upset that you didn’t invite her the “right” way, so I wouldn’t stress about it too much.

Perhaps send her a message saying “You know? I’ve really had a good time reconnecting with you and I’m so glad to rediscover our friendship. If I asked you to come to the wedding, would you say yes? 😉 “

(something playful)

Then when she says yes, say “Wonderful. Can I have your address so I can give you a formal invite?”


Post # 6
674 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I think she’ll just be happy to be invited, so I say go for it.

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