(Closed) Need Advice

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Hi there. Well, I’m not expert, but I would tell your Fiance. I’ve been with my Fiance for almost 6 years, lived together for 5 1/2 and engaged for 2 months. I’ve found that when things get out of sync a nice talk to re connect helps. Also, look at yourself…have you changed anything? Can you step up your game a little? There are def. roller-coasters in relationships but that’s what makes things so exciting. My Fiance never thought to come home with a nice bottle of wine until I said “hey…i would feel really special if you brought home a nice bottle of wine for us to enjoy every so often” lol. I know it feels forced at first but just think..he remembered your request and cared to act on it. Couples take a long time to teach each other what they like and how they want things to flow if that makes sense.

As for that crush…It’s probably just a crush! There are tons of cuties out there. Just be sure to keep it a friendship not a flirtship. It takes a bit because who doesn’t like to be noticed by another person…Don’t put yourself in a situation that would be tempting. My Fiance gets a little hesitant at times because I go to school with pre med students and for some reason that intimidates him…I always think when I am talking to a guy that I find attractive..”how would I want my Fiance to treat a hot chik if he were in my shoes?” “Would I act this way if my Fiance were watching me right now?”…Get what I’m saying?

Don’t let yourself fall into a trap of falling for someone else because they seem new and fun…Like my step mom says…Every man puts their pants on the same as the next man…KWIM?

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