- 6 years ago
- Wedding: September 2012
So I guess I’m overreacting, at least that’s what my mom keeps telling me. I’m so angry I’m out of my mind.
Fiance and I had our wedding planed. We decided everything together. Then my parents started changing things…
I made my dress. My mom didn’t like it (too much poof) so I had to change it, again and again till she liked it and I … well, I don’t like it anymore, but ok, it’s just for one day.
I wanted to make tulle-FG-dresses. My parents hated the idea, so now they are just “normal” Flower Girl dresses.
My mom changed the wedding cake, changed the church decor, changed cocktail hour, removed people from the guest list and added some she liked better. My parents keep telling us most guests that accepted won’t attend anyway. At fist we got the ceremony music we wanted, just to find out my parents changes it. They prefer organ, we a string quartet….
So now today we called them and they randomly mentioned they had all our friendors (friends that are vendors) invited for a BBQ tonight to discuss our wedding. We are 5 hours away and it’s not just that we cannot make it we aren’t even invited.
It was enough before but that was too much. I really don’t know what I have done to them to deserve this. I’m about to call off the wedding and just go to the courthouse with Fiance. Nothing, really nothing is what we wanted anymore and now they meet up to change even more? Last time We were visiting (this weekend) we asked if we were allowed to maybe have a BBQ or something with all our friendors when we come back (next weekend till the wedding) but they told us now that that was too late… ??? They know better what we want???
So I told my mom that I won’t come back ever if she sticks to that plan. And? She doesn’t understand. Now Fiance called her to explain (he’s calmer then me 😉 so she said: well, I don’t understand but ok, then we won’t talk about the wedding but we meet and have the BBQ everythings already planed… She just doesn’t understand…
I don’t know what to do.