- 5 years ago
Hello lovely bees. I thought about asking you about something. I got no girlfriends and no one to talk to lol.
A little background. Over 7 years ago I meet someone on the internet and we hit it off. We are from the same country but he lives in UK and I live in North America. Neither of us had travel papers at the time so we could not visit each other. Believe it or not we stayed in touch for 3 years. But no one can really wait that long without ever meeting so we stopped talking. We started talking again for a year or two I believe but no more sparks between us. We had both moved on from whatever this was, I can’t even call it a relationship. I then had another long distance relationship (when will I ever learn lol). We actually met in person and spent 3 weeks together when I went back home ( I know am a Canadian citizen yayyy). Well this “relationship” only lasted 5 months.
Anyways, back to the first guy. A few weeks ago I learned through Facebook that he is now back in our country. I am also going back home in a few months. I also learned that he got married in December. I was thinking to send him a Facebook message and ask him to meet for a coffee. I swear I do not want anything more. I am in a very committed with my SO of 3plus years and I LOVE him to piecies. I just never actually met this guy in person and I wanted to, for the sake of all those years we used to talk everyday.
Well, I wrote all this post for you lovely bees to tell me I am being stupid and to let this go and not message him. After all i haven’t heard anything frim him for the last 2 years.
Thank you for reading.