- 4 years ago
So here is the situation. One of my best friends and I were engaged within 2 months of each other. A little bit of background- her now fiancé and my fiancé are best friends. My fiancé and I started dating about a month before her and her fiancé. They got engaged first, then we did. Her wedding is in sept and mine is in nov. essentially we have been right on each others heals always. Not to mention we lived together for two years. I even told her (before she was engaged) that I accidentaly found my engagement ring before my fiancé was ready to propose (a whole diff can of worms haha). Now, I love her dearly but lately it seems like she’s resenting my fiancé and I for being engaged around the same time. I don’t feel like I’m stealing her thunder but I’m afraid she thinks I am (I even threw her and her fiancé a surprise engagement party). She even got mad when I was close to picking a venue. My question is- do I have to wait for her to do everything first since she was engaged first? Do I wait to pick my bridal party, colors ect. Or do I just do what’s best for me and hope she’s happy for the both of us. It’s exhausting walking on egg shells.