- 7 years ago
- Wedding: October 2010
Hi! So basically I got engaged Christmas Eve of 2009 (long engagement, I know) and we are planning on getting married this November. When I got engaged I was so excited I basically just blurted out to my 3 closest friends over texting if they would be a bridesmaid in my wedding. I didn’t even think who I would pick to be the maid of honor, as I do not have a sister or even close cousin. I recently decided to ask one of the friends I already asked to be a bridesmaid if she would be my maid of honor (actually if she is married she’d be called Matron of Honor, right?).
All of them keep asking me who is in the wedding and who is the maid of honor (as if they don’t remember after the million times they have asked!). Do I tell the other two that I want as the matron of honor? (I’m asking her this wednesday.) Or should I just not say anything and if it comes up then let them know? I just don’t want them to be mad or hurt, but frankly has been a better friend than them for almost a year now!