(Closed) Need advice about friend's husband

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Sugar bee

I would definitely want to know if it were me.

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

I’d tell her. 

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I would tell her. Just say you thought he’d gone to the bar with his brother since you saw his car while you guys were out. Then let her sort it out. I mean… if she’d gone out with you guys, SHE would have seen the car.

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@GeekChic:  Same here, I would want to know.

Post # 7
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Honey bee

 I would want someone to tell me and I would probably tell my friend as well. Then I would leave it to them to discuss. I wouldn’t seek any other information after that though.

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@Mrs_G:  I would tell her what you know. 

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@Mrs_G:  I would definately mention that you saw his car at the bar….and then leave it at that. 

Post # 11
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Helper bee

Yes, I would want to know. And yes, I would tell her if I were in your position, especially since she’s been talking to you about the situation throughout the evening.

Post # 12
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Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Personally, I’d definitley want to know. Just tread carefully, she’s your friend and you’d be better at gauging her reaction and knowing if she’s one of those women who would be upset or flip it on you. I’d mention that I thought I saw his car (personalized plates) but  I’d probably take a picture of his car with my phone, hoping not to have to show her just in case she gets upset and blames you if he says “Oh, no definitely wasn’t me”.  It could be totally innocent, but it’s just not good to lie.

Really is too bad she didn’t go out with you, that way she may have seen his car for herself.

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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Mrs_G:  Definitely tell her! My philosophy is if I’m close to the offended party, I tell them. That’s what friends do.

Post # 16
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

Are you close enough to go back to the bars and wait near his car to see who he comes out with? I have a few friends, where I’d do some detective work for them.

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