(Closed) Need Advice! Canceling wedding (not marriage)

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

Can your Fiance sit down adn talk with his parents and sister and see what they think/how they feel? Have they asked you to change the wedding date?

 

As for her not telling you when you picked a date, how far along was she? The early weeks of pregnancy can be very trying as the couple may not know if the pregnancy will “stick” or not.

She may have been worried about that or even had pregnancies not “stick” before and not wanted to tell anyone until they were further along. I don’t think you can be upset at her for not telling you when you picked the date.

Post # 5
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@nhoh: Maybe she and her husband were ok with the fact that your wedding would be so close to their due date and didn’t want to ask you to change your plans because they knew how tight your schedule was.

I think you really need to talk with everyone first before assuming the worst.

Post # 6
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

Also, I think if they’d said something like “we’ll let you know in 2-3 weeks because something might come up” that’s pretty much an admission of pregnancy OR it makes it sound like they are looking for an excuse to make life difficult for you.

One is announcing way before they want to (and it really is fully up to the couple when they want to announce) and the other makes them look like a$$es.

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