- 11 years ago
- Wedding: July 2011
I think that you owe yourself to stop planning to really examine what you want. You can always put things off for a year and get married later. Yes, it’s hard to push back a wedding, especially after everything has been planned, but it’s even harder to divorce and walk away later.
Since you’re having really big doubts, I would try to talk to a counselor yourself and work through your feelings with him/her?
You owe it to yourself to really be honest with yourself. You deserve to be happy, and you deserve to live with someone who respects you. I dated someone with a controlling mother, and she ultimately told him to walk away from me (and our 7 month old baby). She got especially controlling as soon as I bought a house (we were common-law) and got pregnant. As stresses pile on, a toxic mother-in-law can really do major damage in a relationship.
I really wish you the best. I can’t imagine how difficult this must be.