(Closed) Need advice! Cold feet or something more?!

posted 11 years ago in Emotional
Post # 17
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I think that you owe yourself to stop planning to really examine what you want.   You can always put things off for a year and get married later.  Yes, it’s hard to push back a wedding, especially after everything has been planned, but it’s even harder to divorce and walk away later.

Since you’re having really big doubts, I would try to talk to a counselor yourself and work through your feelings with him/her? 

You owe it to yourself to really be honest with yourself.  You deserve to be happy, and you deserve to live with someone who respects you.   I dated someone with a controlling mother, and she ultimately told him to walk away from me (and our 7 month old baby).  She got especially controlling as soon as I bought a house (we were common-law) and got pregnant.  As stresses pile on, a toxic mother-in-law can really do major damage in a relationship.

I really wish you the best.  I can’t imagine how difficult this must be. 

Post # 17
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Newbee

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cupcakexo:  hi! I came across your post from 5 years and was wondering whether or not you went through with your wedding? Curious! 

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