Post # 31
Goodo, go with that relieved feeling . Don’t weaken , don’t change your mind , be firm. No need to share too many details with anyone else ( except us lol!) Just ‘oh yes, X couldn’t make it/ afford it in the end , and I completely understood, so …Now how is your poor dog’s paw doing ?
Post # 32
- Wedding: March 2018 - Blue Bay Grand Esmeralda
elderbee : That is what I plan on doing. I am not going to sink to her level by going around and talking about her or telling anyone about it. Although I do have quite a few friends that grew up with her and know how she is, and they will know something went down! haha. Other than that, I am going about my day stress free. Shitty thing is Fiance has a wedding party of 4, and now I only have 2!!
Post # 33
skunktastic : I completely agree! If you think she will be complaining the whole wedding day or are worried about how she will present her self, i would just cut her out and end the friendship. You don’t want or NEED a Debby Downer on your wedding day! She seems like a horrible friend to have anyway and you seem to be over the friendship.
i would just have a chat with her. If its too much of a financial struggle, suggest she not be a Bridesmaid or Best Man and come as just a guest. Or tell her that its totally okay if she cant make it at all and there is “no hurt feelings” if she cant attend.
Post # 34
She doesn’t sound like a good bridesmaid. Ask her to step down. Make it all about you understanding her concerns. LOL. She needs to shut up or give it up.
Post # 35
morgie20 : Girl, i feel you on that but my thing is don’t do things to others that you wouldnt want other to do to you. someday she will be a bride and whatever goes around comes around. Stay positive and if you aren’t feeling the girl anymore than just drop her you don’t need that negative vibes on you I hope you have a great wedding! and good luck im dealing with some of those people too in my wedding party but i just have to think of the great time me and my fiance will have. think about that.
Post # 36
I’m sorry she, WHAT? who the hell goes around flashing people, let alone other people’s boyfriends. Not just once, but enough times that you’ve REPEATEDLY had to ask her not to? That is…. just.. no.
Ask her not to be a bridesmaid. I suspect that this issue is not going to go away otherwise, and that more will come up. Plus then you don’t have to worry about a bridesmaid getting her tits out at your wedding.
Post # 37
morgie20 : You could pair up 2 groomsmen per bridemaid