(Closed) need advice!! new event coordinator is miserable :(

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

@capebride924: haha, I think your mom is right she probably won’t even make it to your wedding, but if you had a bad meeting with her, the new manager needs to know. It will give them one more reason to fire her before the wedding. Explain to the manager that you will not be inclined to give positive reviews of the venue if the coordinator continues to behave in a rude manner.

Post # 4
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5762 posts
Bee Keeper

We had one too, but she actually got better and was very helpful after a really rocky start.  She made a few insulting remarks a few times, but I was quick to tell her about it and how I didn’t appreciate her attitude. Guess it worked! Have your Mom deal with her and take on the stress FOR you. I’m guessing she may be a bit more assertive than you might be (or maybe not, depending on her personality).

I was the MOB and had no problem being the go-between and fall guy. 🙂

Post # 5
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

The exact same thing is happening to us. When we booked our location, the coordinator was amazing, and helped for 4 moths with everyting. Now she left and the new girl is HORRIBLE, ie: she is telling me how i should handle things to do with my culture because she says she has seen them a certain way, as if she know better than me. The last girl was so supportive. I havent met the new girl yet, I will next week. I am waiting to make my final decision on her when I meet her in person. If i am still unhappy with her, I am definitely going to her higher up and telling them this girl is not what I signed up for. At least, this way, if she messes up on the day of, I can have some ground to stand on to get something back from them, and they wont be able to say “well, you should have said something earlier”. DEFINITELY escalate the issue.

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