- 7 years ago
Ok, so here is the issue. My sister has been engaged for about a year. She has changed her wedding date at least TEN times. She is so disorganized, and one minute she is asking for help, the next she is ignoring all of the ideas and help that I’m trying to give her! Now out of the blue, she has moved the wedding date AGAIN. She was planning for spring of next year, and is now having it in December of this year! She has been driving me crazy, but I came to the conclusion that this is HER wedding so I need to just let her have it the way she wants it, and not be annoyed with her.
Well now she has informed us that it is going to be VERY small, which I don’t have a problem with. My issue is that she is not inviting one of our siblings to the wedding. I could understand if that sibling lived out of state, or she wasn’t close to them… but she is, so I don’t get it!!! Part of me doesn’t even want to go now, because I will feel as if I’m betraying the sibling that wasn’t invited. What makes me REALLY mad is the fact that she is inviting DISTANT family, (people only related my marriage) over her own sibling! I don’t understand why, and she can’t even give us a straight answer as to why. The only thing she will say is “Well they probably can’t make it anyways” But I think she needs to at least INVITE them!
Has anyone ever had a situation like this before? How did you handle it? I need some advice as to what I should say to my sister when I talk to her about this later.