(Closed) Need advice on how to handle BM situation

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
1723 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I’m sorry 🙁  It feels like whenever you have a group of girls together there will always be something going on within then.  I feel like it was extremely rude to respond that it wasn’t her kid so she didn’t care how she was talking.  As far as your Maid/Matron of Honor and Bridesmaid or Best Man not inviting the other girl…are we talking about the Bridesmaid or Best Man whose friend was the one cussing?

Post # 5
720 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

When kids are fighting, the grown-ups need to step in and straighten them out. That’s exactly what’s happening here. You need to straighten out your Bridesmaid or Best Man.

Sarcasm isn’t justification for cussing in front of kids. That’s ridiculous. If this guest’s behaviour is out of line, your friend needs to know in no uncertain circumstances that she will be asked to leave. Your friend is responsible for her guest, so it reflects badly on her if she brings someone who can’t behave decently.

As for the rest of the nonsense, it frankly sounds like cattiness and immaturity. Let them know that they need to knock it off.

And your Bridesmaid or Best Man should not be bringing random people to bridal appointments, btw. That makes no sense.


Post # 6
917 posts
Busy bee

@JacobsMama:  Ask the bridesmaid if she really wants to be a bridesmaid in your wedding or not, because her actions are speaking louder than words. Tell her if she does she needs to shape up, or ship out. Simple. 

Post # 7
1320 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014 - NH

@krayzay87:  Totally agree with this advice.  You don’t need someone there who isn’t in it for you 100%. 

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