- 6 years ago
- Wedding: June 2012
This post is Not Wedding Related but I didnt feel like there was a better place for woman to woman advice than the BEE!
A little back story… My Maid/Matron of Honor (M) never dated in high school until she met a guy a few weeks before graduation. They dated for 2 years, lived together for 1 year and broke up about 6 months ago. He had another girl living with him and is now engaged… but that is a whole other story! IMO, there wasnt much there but conveinence from the begining. My friend is ready to start dating again. She is smart, funny and well… stacked! LOL She has serious issues meeting a guy though due partly to her work and area of study being completely female dominated. When she does go out she isnt meeting guys but at the same time not exactly putting herself out there or approaching anyone. She has said that she wouldnt like a guy unless he came up to her and did all the work. I dont think she realizes that unfortunately that is just NOT how it works for most girls. She has zero confidence and spends all her time making herself look desprate chasing after guys she cant have or who have made it clear they just want to be friends. I want to help my friend because she is so lonely and sad all the time and it hurts to see her so frustrated. It isnt helping that everyone in our circle of friends is in a relationship…
So, I look to Bees wiser than myself for advice on how I can help my very best friend?