(Closed) Need advice on this PLZ

posted 9 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Helper bee

I am confused… why do you need to go to a hotel to kiss?

Post # 8
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

I’d say!  You can still go to the hotel and do stuff just go earlier….

Post # 9
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

Well if you are still living in under your parents roof so -to-speak, then I guess the rules are the rules.. Perhaps they are trying to keep you from doing something you may regret?

I would definitely talk to your parents about the situation and your birthday. Maybe there is exceptions!

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Is your curfew court mandated? 

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 1900

How about a crazy makeout sesh in the back row of a movie theater?  Choose a movie that has already been out for a long time and no one is watching.  *hehe*

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

If you’re 26 then you should have already acquired the life skills to stand up for yourself and make your own decisions. Why are you still living at home if your mother is this controlling?

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

Is your mother your primary caretaker (As in, you need some extra help cognitively or mentally) that she may feel the need to be on your case or control you 24/7?  I’m not trying to be snarky, but there has to be more to this!  If you need some extra help driving, or planning, or being home at a certain time, it’s probably because she loves you and cares about you.

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

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@GoldfishPie: Thank you.  I was thinking the same thing but was not sure if it was ok to ask.  It would explain a lot, and any advice could be better geared towards the circumstances.

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@ModernCinderella: I’m in a similar situation and although it’s normal in my culture, it’s sure embarassing to share it with people who’s not used to it.

Childish as it is.. I lie. I tell my parents I’m sleeping over with a friend and spend the night with Fiance, I just make sure such friend knows about the situation so she’ll back the story.

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