(Closed) Need advice please…to dump or to not dump???

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
4953 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

If you’re thinking seriously about dumping him, you need to dump him regardless of his pros and cons. 

Post # 4
6261 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

You don’t seem to be that into him. You’re weighing all the pros and cons (and to me if you see that many cons, move on) instead of enjoying the relationship. 

Post # 5
2903 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2011 - Midland, TX

@Mammabeeof5:  Actually I have an ex just like this!! Unfortunately because of those exact pros that you listed I stayed with him for 3 years until the financial problems and the lack of communication became the big ugly gorilla that I just could not ignore anymore. The hygiene issue got better but it was not a deal maker or breaker.

I say move on before you waste so much time like I did!

Post # 7
2903 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2011 - Midland, TX

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@Mammabeeof5:  Glad you stuck up for your self and called it quits. I know that can be hard thinking about being alone again but it’s better this way.Someone better will come along…someone that is worthy of what you have to offer.

Post # 8
2493 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Men with poor hygeine and who act immature will never change… it’s something that no matter how hard you try, you cannot undo… I think you made the right decision. I wish you happiness 🙂 there are better fish in the sea!

Post # 9
492 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013


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