(Closed) Need advice QUICK! He’ll be home in 20 min….

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Tell him that I know?
    Yes : (28 votes)
    25 %
    No : (83 votes)
    75 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
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    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I’d go along with it. =)

    Post # 3
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    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2012

    WHOA double post.

    Post # 4
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: January 2015

    I’d tell him. 

    I hate knowing secrets, so if you’re anything like me you’d be really dissapointed you know!!!

    Post # 5
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    4676 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    Go along with it!  

    Post # 6
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    Newbee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    Go along with it, let him think he is planning a wonderful surprise and don’t ruin it for him.  Tell him after the fact.

    Post # 8
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    3773 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: December 1999

    @Martinigirl:  That is what I do too, Darling Husband is so bad at suprises.

    Post # 9
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    Busy Beekeeper

    I’d tell him – mostly because I know if the shoe was on the other foot, I’d be bummed Darling Husband didn’t let on to me that he knew – meanwhile, all month long, I’d been acting covertly, etc – it would make me feel like an idiot if he ever found out.

    OR – if you are good at keeping secrets and will NEVER let on (to anyone!) that you knew – I’d go along with it and fake it.

    It’s kind of up to what your personality is like… 🙂  Sorry – not much help, but hopefully will give you some things to weigh.

    Post # 10
    Hostess
    16213 posts
    Honey Beekeeper

    Can you pull off acting “surprised?” If so, don’t tell him.

    But if you can’t and you might end up telling him anyway, even after-the-fact, I’d tell him now.

    Post # 11
    Hostess
    16213 posts
    Honey Beekeeper

    @oracle:  I agree that if I was so proud of myself for being sneaky for a month, I’d feel really bad later when I found out he’d known all along.

    Post # 11
    Member
    891 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    Don’t tell if you are a pokerface and can act all surprised! ^_^

    Post # 13
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    Worker bee
    • Wedding: December 1996

    I agree…don’t ruin the surprise for him!!  Let him have fun with the planning.  You’ll still be surprised a month from now…just tell yourself that you never saw it!  I dont know that you should even tell him after the fact because then it’ll be like “Ha! I knew the whole time!” and that’s not nice.  Maybe tell him years later…

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