Post # 1
My ex bf just txtd me if I wanted to meet up, “no strings attach.” Which you know what that means. No way am I interested! I’m happily in a new relatiopnship and getting married. Should I let the ex know that I’m getting married in the hopes of him never contacting me again? or ignore him. I hate to keel this from my Fiance, but I know it will turn ugly. please help! Was with the ex for 8yrs, abusive relationship. Even more of a reason why my Fiance wants to set him straight.
Post # 3
Write back with, “Who is this?” Do not tell him it is your number; lie and say your name is something else.
Post # 4
I’d ignore him, and I’d mention it to Fiance. There’s no reason to hide it.
Post # 5
I wouldn’t respond at all. If you don’t engage him, he’ll get the message.
Post # 6
@peachacid: that’s a good one. Act like I changed my number. Thanks! He isais pyshco, this is why i freak out when he contacts me.
Post # 7
I would ignore it or go peachacids route.
Post # 8
If I were you I would ignore all contact with this man. 8 years or not, he was abusive to you, he might react very badly to the fact you are getting married and this can cause more drama to the situation already since your Fiance wants to “set him straight”. Ignoring him all through is the best way to go and leave it at that!
Stay away from this guy and focus on what’s here and now. I wouldn’t want to see my Fiance in trouble because of an abusive ex. ETA: I also would tell my Fiance, so he doesn’t think you’ve been hiding this if he finds out.
Post # 9
I’m a mean person- I’d tell him to go f*!k himself… cuz that’s the only f*!king that would be happnening.
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Post # 12
My ex-boyfriend texted me several months after my now Fiance and I started dating. He said that he had a dream about me in a car accident and that I died. I wanted to reply back and tell him I was alright but that we could no longer have contact. I brought it up to my Fiance and he told me this:
“You’ll be sending him mixed messages by texting him back. You’ll also be opening the line of communication. He is a guy and we’ll take any oppurunity that comes up.”
So I would suggest to ignore him, he doesn’t need any explaination, he doesn’t need to know you’re engaged, he doesn’t need your texts. As far as you’re concerned he isn’t worth a text and leave it at that.
He’s fine, he’ll find some other girl to have a “no strings attached” affair with.
Post # 13
just ignore it. nothing good can come from responding
Post # 14
First I would text him to leave you alone, and only once then don’t text him again…. this may make him send you more texts, so keep them all, and file for a restraining order when you have enough “evidence” of harrassment.
Post # 15
Oh wow, my ex tried doing the same thing to me early on in my relationship with my now Fiance. And my ex was in a relationshipwith someone else himself! Some guys are just dogs, plain and simple.
I would totally go the route that @peachacid: suggested.
I would definitely let your Fiance know that your ex propositioned you, you have no reason to hide it from him, but if you do hide it from him it will look very bad.
Post # 16
I would ignore it. In fact, been there, and I have ignored it.