(Closed) Need Advice! Tricky Situation with Friends…What do Do??

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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6743 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

Isn’t there anyone else R can ask to travel with you?

I’m not one to judge someone else’s work/study schedule.  People work and study and do things when it’s good for them, because that’s when they can do it.  My Fiance is a night guy and studies in the afternoon and nights.  I’m more of a person who needs to get up and get studying right away or I’ll never get it done at all.  I wouldn’t be so judgmental about his scheduling issues.

I will assume that there are other issues though other than his desire to make his schedule convenient for him (which is understandable, lots of people do that).  Perhaps you can tell R to find a new travel buddy and then let T know that it just wasn’t working out?

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 1996

It seems like you’re needing things from him and the friendship that he either can’t or won’t provide. Friendship is a two way street. If he won’t come to meetings but has time for other things, that says pretty clearly that he’s only interested if everything is on his terms. Suggest that R find a different friend to travel with, or see if she can swing the trip financially without his participation, and just move on with the vacation plans without him.

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