(Closed) Need Advice, when I wear heels I’m taller then my fiance!

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
8487 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2014

Eh. I’m taller than my Fiance even when I’m barefoot, so I say go for it. He’s still possibly half an inch taller.

Post # 4
786 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

You should do what you feel comfortable with. Do you not like feeling taller? If not, I’d probably go with a lower heel. But if you don’t mind or like being the same height, then go for the higher shoes! I personally prefer to be shorter than my fiance (Although its not an issue because he’s like 5’11ish and I’m 5’2ish…so there arent any heels in the world that would make me close to his height), but you should just pick what’s right for you both.

Post # 5
2725 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I’m taller than my Fiance no matter what. It’s really not that big of a deal…especially since you will be eye to eye. 

Post # 6
12134 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2009 - Barr Mansion

Definitely wear them if you love them. It doesn’t matter who’s taller! 🙂

Post # 7
1844 posts
Buzzing bee

if you don’t want to look taller in pictures then i say find a different pair of shoes. If you don’t mind the height difference then wear them. I personally will never be taller than my Darling Husband no matter what height shoes I wear, but would find it strange if we were suddenly the same height in pictures.

Post # 8
4803 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I think that personally if I didn’t normally wear taller shoes and was usually shorter than Fiance, I would want that on my wedding day too.  I’m waearing flat shoes 🙂

Post # 9
1697 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I’m an inch shorter tha Fiance and he gets self conscious when I’m way taller in heels. It doesn’t bother me at all to be taller than him. In our engagement pics I wore heels and you couldn’t really tell at all that I was taller. Personally I am wearing flip flops on my wedding day so I’m not taller in pics anyway. 

Post # 10
270 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

I guess it depends.  Are you goign to wear a veil too?  Depending on the style, a veil might add some more height (a few inches even!), and you might tower over him.  If you’re not wearing a veil, I think you’re fine with being eye level, so go ahead and wear it.

Post # 11
1902 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

In heels I surpass my FIs height. If photo opps are a concern what about standing on lower ground, like steps or something, nobody will notice though 🙂

Post # 12
55 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

My friend who hates being short wears some little wedges he tucks into his shoes, they make him almost 2 inches taller, would your man consider wearing these? Maybe just until after the photos are done? x

The topic ‘Need Advice, when I wear heels I’m taller then my fiance!’ is closed to new replies.

Find Amazing Vendors