- 4 years ago
Hey everyone, I’m having a hard time in deciding when to actually get married. So here is the scenario, I just got engaged this September to my boyfriend of 5 years. I was really hoping to plan our wedding for next year in the end of September 2106, however I am currently going to school full-time with a year and a half to go to complete my associates degree and then hoping to pursue a bachelors sometime soon after. I’m only able to work part-time and have to use my dad’s insurance, however I will be 26 in August 2016 and will no longer be covered by my dad’s insurance. So my dilemma is, if we get married in the fall of 2016 so I could be covered under my fiance’s insurance (as my employer doesn’t offer insurance benefits and I can’t afford to pay out of pocket) that since my fiance has a good job and makes decent money that once we are married I will no longer be able to recieve much if any financial aid and scholarsips, which I feel I would put him in a financial hardship if that were to happen. Ugh..its so complicated..sorry for the long message but i just feel really stressed and would greatly appreciate anyones insight and opinions.
Thank you all!