- confused and embarassed
- 8 years ago
How would you feel if your husband was doing what you are doing with a woman HE works with? If you wouldn’t mind, then keep up your shit. But if you wouldn’t like him doing it to you, then cut your shit and be a WIFE!!! There’s a reason you took those vows, and if you can’t keep your word, then move the fuck on and let your husband be with someone that CAN be emotionally/physically faithful!!
Obviously I don’t know what the story is but I think I can piece enough together to figure it out..
My ex BFF was cheating on her husband, she’d had 5 affairs in 2 years, was miserable, turned into an alcoholic and drama queen. I have to say, after cutting her out of my life, I don’t miss having to be the one to clean up after her messes or spend 3 hrs on the phone with her drunk crying about why no one loves her or how she’s not good enough. I’ve told her several times to be a wife or get a divorce, no one is forcing her to stay there but no… she stays and is miserable and ruining the lives of her husband and kids.
SO, from an outsider’s point of view, you are an adult and should act like it. It is NOT fair to someone else to string them along while you’re out cheating and breaking hearts and vows. If you can’t be faithful then leave your husband so he can be with someone who can be. There is no one to blame but you.
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