(Closed) Need advice….might have to kick out a bridesmaid/roommate?! (Sorry it’s long)

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 4
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1158 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Wow.what a headache.She sounds like such an inconsiderate person.What does your fiance think of you eliminating her from the wedding party?I wouldn’t ask her to step down.That would probably cause problems within the family.The dog would have to go.That could cost you your deposit.Sit down and talk to her with your fiance.It will all be over soon.Hang in there.

Post # 6
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945 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

This is a really sticky situation, I agree with pp, sit down and have a talk with her. The air definitely needs to be cleared, maybe after you all talk things out you guys will be able to get along much better. Hugs! Keep us posted!

Post # 7
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115 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

I would say that since everything is paid for, don;t just kick her out of the wedding just yet.

 

You will be out of there in a month, and then you’ll have a few months before the wedding. It’s possible your relationship will mend itself in that time.

I had a cousin renting from me, and he took advantage of living here to the point where I told him he needed to leave. He left 4 months ago and we have been MUCH happier since, and it didn’t damage my relationship with him.

Post # 8
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3135 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2018

I agree with PP- a few weeks apart will make things better. Don’t kick her out. 

Post # 9
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7561 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

It sounds like the roommate issue is clouding your judgement about the wedding. You haven’t mentioned anything she’s done to be a bad bridesmaid, so why would you kick her out of the wedding? She is being a bad roommate, but I’m guessing you won’t be living with her in 3 months so I would just try to keep the peace for now. She may be inconsiderate, but she’s a member of your new family so it sounds like it’s easier to grin and bear it for a few months then to case a potential family blow-out. 

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