(Closed) Need Advise.. Help!

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Bumble bee

Talk to him! He might have forgotten what he said, or gotten a different idea from the conversation, etc. There are plenty of threads on the bee on how to have that conversation. Don’t just keep quiet and get angry and resentful – let him know what’s on your mind, but in a clear, calm, non-naggy manner (basically do everything I didn’t do). =)

Good luck!

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

SO missed the first timeline we had.  We had the conversation the year before and I patiently waited for the timeline to come up.  SO didn’t even remember having that conversation.  I was like, remember, you said you would propose by X date?! And he didn’t remember… women pay more attention to things like that.  A nudge wouldn’t hurt, but if you want to wait another month, a month isn’t a big deal after being together 4 years.  Good luck!

 

Post # 6
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Bumble bee

@katy13:  It’s entirely up to you and how you are feeling. If you’re okay with waiting, then I think it’s okay to wait another month. If it’s driving you insane, then I wouldn’t have an omg you have one month left now conversation at this point, but maybe just a where do you see things going, are we still on the same page, etc. kind of conversation.

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