(Closed) Need an uplift!!

posted 9 years ago in Waiting
Post # 47
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595 posts
Busy bee

You are going to drive yourself batshit crazy and take the romance out of the whole deal if you keep obsessing. Take a deep breath, and just try to take things day by day and focus on enjoying your relationship. Occupy yourself with other things, and remind yourself if you start to get caught up that it IS going to happen. It’s in the works!! If you chill out and take some of the focus off of the waiting, it’s going to be even more amazing when it happens. So breathe, girl, and remember you’re not alone in the waiting game! 

Post # 50
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361 posts
Helper bee

In defense of some of the men out there – they don’t always know when or how it’s going to happen. Some of them play it by ear and wait until they feel right. Feeling pressured probably doesn’t help them feel anything close to right. Just an insight. 

Post # 52
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361 posts
Helper bee

@Anxiouspeanut: If he has his plan, I’d let it go. My Boyfriend or Best Friend has the money for the ring, has the ring picked out, but isn’t buying it yet. I’m not freaking out because I know he has a plan. I know I’m getting married, so I’m just biding my time until he asks. Sometimes, life happens while you’re making other plans. If something happens and the money needs to be used, take a deep breath and adapt and overcome. Be careful of having such unrealistic expectations that you lose the joy of each step in your relationship, or the relationship itself. 

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