Need cold harsh truth! Is SO right to wait?

posted 2 years ago in Waiting
Post # 46
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7919 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

waitingbeeann :  

Well done you . It is hard and you will be sad  for a while  . Stay strong when he inevitably accuses you of ‘manipulation ‘ or whatever when you tell him about the job acceptance . And do not weaken,   if he says ‘oh well god yes if it means so much I will marry you then,  OK !!  Now tell them no you are  not taking the job” Even  if he frames it better /less ungraciously.

Post # 47
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346 posts
Helper bee

Good for you – you are dong the right thing!  Good for you for taking control of your life and making an adult decision, something this guy is, apparently, incapable of doing.  Yes, you will be sad because you love this guy, and change can be difficult, but you will be so much better for it in the long run.  Best of all, you will be setting your career on the a good path, AND by saying no to someone who can’t give you what you want, you have room to say YES to a wonderful man who is eager to be with you and exctied to marry you one day.  Good luck to you!

Post # 48
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3306 posts
Sugar bee

Good for you. Trust me, he isn’t the only man on Earth. You will find love again and things won’t be so difficult. It will just flow and hindsight is 20/20.

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