Post # 1
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Bumble bee
I am feeling discouraged today bees….I started out a few years back at 235 (5’7″)… when FI proposed in Dec 2011 I weighed aprox 205….promised myself I would not get married at that weight and began a diet/exercise program and am now at 165…but when looking at pics I still am feeling ‘blah’. Maybe it’s because im a little older (37)…or maybe I feel like I should be further by now..ugh!! I look at these pics and really don’t notice much of a difference. I guess what really matters is that I am marrying a man who could care less about what I weigh…and that the dress finally fits….lol!
at 235:
In Feb of 2012 at around 200:
Now at 165:
Anyone else lose weight but still not feeling it??
Post # 3
Hostess
11177 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
Lady the difference is beyond crazy. Congrats to you! I think is it hard when we have seen ourselves a certain way for so long….it is hard to see anything different. I lost 140 pounds and yet I still feel hideous some days. We just have to focus on the positive…the new..the healthier us.
Post # 4
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Worker bee
I definitely see a difference! You look fantastic, and so much more confident. Congrats on such a big weight loss!
Post # 5
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Helper bee
Oh my goodness, gracious! You look absolutely stunning!!!! There is a huge difference, and you should be absolutely thrilled! I applaud all your hard work! You have nothing to worry about!
Post # 6
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2842 posts
Sugar bee
@misskittykakes: Are you kidding? the weight loss is very apparent
Post # 7
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772 posts
Busy bee
You look amazing. I think you are so used to seeing yourself and judging yourself that you can’t see it.
Post # 8
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Busy bee
Um, you can totally see a difference! You look great! Congrats on all your hard work paying off!
Post # 9
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Busy bee
You look freaking AWESOME 🙂 you will be such a beautiful bride! I know how you feel… I lost 60 lbs a few years ago but I still feel self conscious. I can’t wait to see pictures!
Post # 10
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Busy bee
You look amazing!!! I am sure your FH will think the same when he sees you in your dress! Congrats and be happy with your results!
Post # 11
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Honey bee
Are you kidding me? You look better than amazing. I mean a truly spectacular transformation. You look like the bomb diggity! LOL
Post # 12
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Bee Keeper
OMG you look incredible!!!
Post # 13
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238 posts
Helper bee
HOLY SMOKES! You look great!
Post # 14
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Helper bee
There is a HUGE difference you look AMAZING! It’s hard to see a difference in yourself sometimes because you see yourself everyday and don’t notice that you are getting smaller, especially if you were big for a long time it can be hard to get used to your new body and feel confident about it. But seriously you look great and so much happier!
Post # 15
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120 posts
Blushing bee
You can tell the difference and you look awesome. Now tell me what you did to lose it seeing as how I am at the heaviest I have ever been. I am 205lbs and my wedding is Next year. My goal ultimately is to get to 150 but if I can to 165-170 by wedding I’d be ok
Post # 16
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880 posts
Busy bee
You look fantastic! Seriously, amazing!!
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