(Closed) Need HELP and ADVICE

posted 8 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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1030 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Unfortunately I don’t think there is anything YOU can do to repair this situation – it’s between your Fiance and his family. I am SO sorry you are going through this.. my ex is Bengali so I know how hard it can be when the Mother-In-Law makes a decision about something. All you can do, I think, is be the loving and supportive wife they want for him and prove them wrong – lead by example..

Good luck!

Post # 5
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987 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

This is a really sad and difficult situation.  To be honest, I think it might be continue to be challenging, particularly if you have children with him.  I’d recommend the two of you get couples counselling to discuss the family issue. Good luck hun.

Post # 7
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25 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I agree with the other posts.  You are doing everything you can right now…and that is being supportive and loving to your Fiance.  I am so sorry that you are going through this.  I can only hope that his family will one day see how happy you make him and how much he loves you.  Good luck ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 8
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714 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

This sounds like a very difficult situation.  First, please take the thought that this is your fault out of your head.  Your Fiance and his mother are both adults and they are the ones making decisions in this situation (it is his decision to marry you and his mother’s to be upset about it).  I think you expressed things very eloquently in your last post.  Have you tried writing a letter to you FMIL?  I don’t know if it would really help, but maybe if you explain to her that you would love her to be a part of your lives etc, etc it might have some have effect on her??  Good luck!

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