- 6 years ago
- Wedding: July 2012
I am getting married in less than 6 weeks, we live in Ontario, getting married in Nova Scotia..
I talked to my ex over a year ago and he was fine with the kids coming, so he has had lots of notice, he decided in January tto be an ass… said that unless the kids came to see him more, that he would NOT allow them to go, because he would miss his time with them. we arranged for the kids to see him more and he said again that he was fine with the summer, now 3 weeks before we are to leave, he is again, not allowing them to go.
let me just say that this man has beaten me and verbally abused us all, the kids of course love him and are usually affraid to stand up to him because he manipulates and uses guilt as a parenting tool. my kids are 16, 15 and 13 and all want to come with me and should be able to make that choice, but i know him, he will stop at nothing to ruin my life!
there is nothing in our separation agreement about leaving the province with the kids…so i should be ok, but he threatened that the moment we leave, he will call the police and report them abducted… even tho they have voiced that they want to go!
is there anything he can really do? i have offered for him to take the kids any other weeks but he says NO, he is so hard to deal with i am losing my freakin mind!
someone please help me so i know what I can do before we leave.