(Closed) Need help – Issues with friend

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Let me tell you from personal experience-Don’t ask flakey friends to be in your wedding party.   It adds so much unnecessary stress!!  It’s just not worth it!

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@Pinknyy:  I would not ask her to be a Bridesmaid or Best Man. Invite her of course but that’s as far as I would go.

Post # 5
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3771 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

edit: I can’t freaking read.. I’d play it by ear but I probably wouldn’t have her as a Bridesmaid or Best Man

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@Brideonabudgetlauren:  100% COSIGN.

OP, I would take her interest with a grain of salt as she appears to be just like one of my friends who is only close when it’s convenient for her.  It’s rather insulting and I am pretty sure I am not going to bother attempting a relationship with her now that she has backed out of the wedding at the last minute.

Post # 9
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11747 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Hang out if you want now that she is around but I’d be weary about making her a Bridesmaid or Best Man.  Since you talked about it before she flaked, it seems like she has quite the timely entrance back into your life.  

Post # 11
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Personally I would not ask her. It couldn’t have hurt to at least message you to say “I need some space for a while, so I’ll be MIA” instead of just disappearing without a word. She sounds too flaky – ask someone you can trust!

Post # 12
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

I wouldn’t ask her to be a bridesmaid but I would just accept her apologies for being MIA now that she’s back – but take it with a grain of salt and don’t go blindly trusting, i.e. making her a bridesmaid. 

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