- 5 years ago
- Wedding: May 2013
Need Advice on this situation :
my wedding is on July 2014 I picked my girls and things are moviing fast. My Maid/Matron of Honor is my older sister and then my other bridesmaids are friends. My sister and I stopped talking for a little bit early last year bc of a situation with me and my fiance(we took a break and got back together) we started talking again(my sister and I ) and I was the Maid/Matron of Honor in her wedding years ago and I wanted her to be in mine but I was going back and forth bc we didn’t talk for a bit and then her and my fiancé dont really talk. I decided to have her be my Maid/Matron of Honor and now I’m having an issue and wandering if I made the wrong decision. my Maid/Matron of Honor lives 3hours away so one of the bridesmaids I’m close with so she took my bridal shower list and I told her to talk with Maid/Matron of Honor. They talked and done things I said I wanted like my grandparents to be involved ( they live in fl but we are very close and I want them to feel included) the Maid/Matron of Honor didn’t want to call them. The Maid/Matron of Honor also said she wanted to give the other bridesmaid minimal detail but I think that’s unfair. I know I shouldn’t be invloved but I feel bad for my bridesmaid /bridesmaid bc I feel like all of them should be involved in planning. Ugh what should I do?