- 8 years ago
- Wedding: September 2010
So I have a dilemma.
Fiance is depressed because my MOH/BFF is planning my bachelorette party in Vegas. He’s really excited for me to go, but is sad because his Best Man/BFF is married with two kids and is the sole provider, (they filed for bankruptcy two years ago). He doesn’t even think he’ll have a bachelor party.
Sucks, because when they were 23 and Best Man decided to elope and then have a second wedding back home, Fiance was kind enough to rent out a townhouse, hire strippers, provide drinks and food, PAID FOR DAMAGE at the townhouse, and threw him an AMAZING bachelor party without even receiving help from everyone that came to the party.
Anyway, I know I can’t afford to pay or arrange a destination bachelor party for Fiance, but I definitely want to plan something either at our house or in the area for him and his boys.
How do I go about doing this without bruising Best Man’s ego? (I really haven’t spoken to him about anything WR, we see him once a month or so)
Second, what are some good ideas?
Third, how do I manage to gather the random spurts of boys that he has as “friends,” and let them know? I don’t see guys going for the “invitation card” idea. LOL
Thanks in advance, bees!