(Closed) Need help with a Bridesmaid…

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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581 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@celiza:  I would rewrite this as a concerned email looking for communication to her. I think we can’t guess what’s really causing this for her, or if you are making connections that don’t exist because your feelings are hurt. Either could be true. Good luck, this kind of thing is SO stressful, even when a wedding (and the pending deadline that creates) is not involved.

Post # 4
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45 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@celiza:  Oh this is one of those damned if you do damned if you don’t situations. I’m not sure it matters if you ‘did’ anything or not. There is absolutely no way not to look like the bad guy in this situation, especially b/c of all the mutual friends involved, asking her to step down from your wedding will not end well. Ignore her behavior and just move forward with your plans and don’t let her lack of enthusiasm bother you, trust me you’ll be far better off just brushing it off, it’ll be hard for a little while but you have so many other people who love you and are excited for you.Best of Luck.

Post # 5
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25 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I would try not to read too much into things without talking to her directly.  Give her the benefit of the doubt and reach out to her.  Maybe state very clearly that you want to spend some one-on-one time with her and ask when she is available and what she’d like to do.  If she says she’s too busy or she stands you up again, I would take @Americano’s advice and email her.  Sorry to hear about your drama.  

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