(Closed) Need help with addressing envelopes to parents

posted 9 years ago in Paper
Post # 3
2365 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

IMO the invites to your parents are written out formally, as to your brother, you can say Mr ____ (your brother) and Ms (his gf) on the same invite

Post # 4
2680 posts
Sugar bee

I agree, I would write out the names formally and on your brothers invite put

Mr. Brother and Ms. Girlfriend under his name and send it to his address.

Post # 5
174 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2009

I haven’t sent my invites yet, but I send the save-the-dates to "Papa and Mom Lastname." My mom thought it was cute. I might go formal on the wedding invite, though.

I’d send a separate invite to your brother’s girlfriend. Let’s her know you want her there specifically not just because she’s his gf.  Also, in my experience, boys are bad about sharing details with girlfriends. She might like to have all the info directly sent to her.

Post # 6
383 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

I don’t really think it matters too much. I was just planning on writing out their names (I don’t think I am doing any form of Mr. or Mrs. – just names). No "Mom and Dad" or anything.

Post # 7
141 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

It depends on your parents really and how they would react to such an invite and you can only be the best gauge for that.

It is different in my situation all together because my parents are really not happy with my marriage still. However, I think that even if they were happy, it would have been weird to invite my own parents. So I got around that by drafting up a formal invite with their first and last names on the outer envelope. I had ribbon bands where I put the names of those invited inside – that’s where I put Papa, Mummy, sister’s name, brother’s name. I presented it to them as "here’s a sample invitation I was working on, do you like it?" This way they got the invitation and didn’t get insulted by being invited to their own daughter’s wedding.

Post # 8
25 posts
  • Wedding: August 2009

I am unsure about the parents..  I plan to do Mr. and Mrs. Bride’s last name on the outer envelopes and Mom and Dad on the inner envelopes.

My understanding with the live-in gf/bf situation is they each get their own line and it goes alphabetically:

Mr. Boyfriend
Ms. Girlfriend
123 Main Street
Somecity,ST 12345

We have a few of those situations and that is how we are handling it. 

Post # 9
6009 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2009

We sent invites to our moms and dads.  We needed them to RSVP for their meal choices, and we figured they might want to keep the formal invitation in scrapbooks or frames or something.  But since we only had one envelope, we just put "mom and dad" on the outside and left it at that.  For your brother and his girlfriend, I would send it to whomever is the "planner" in the relationship.  I actually sent an invite for my sister and her Fi (they don’t live together) to him because he is the one who usually makes social plans for both of them.

P.S.  I don’t think my ways are the proper etiquette.  🙂 

Post # 10
606 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

You can put mom and dad, but it’s nice to get an envelope with your name written out all pretty.

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