(Closed) need help with bridesmaid, please

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
966 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I would tell her that the wedding is enough stress without her comments.  She either needs to watch her tongue, or step down into a less critical role.

I say that.  I can’t tell my mom the same.

Post # 4
8353 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

When you talked to her, did you ask her if she really wanted to be in your wedding party? If I were you, I would have one more talk with her and lay out all of the ground rules and let her know, in no uncertain terms, that if she wants to be in your wedding party, she will have to have a better attitude. If she gets a negative attitude with you, you can just tell her right then and there that you are sorry, but under the circumstances, you are going to have to let her go, and also let her know that if she wants to come as a guest, she is more than welcome to, but you have a certain way that you want things and if she can’t or won’t support you with your decisions that it would be best for both of you, if she wasn’t part of your wedding party.

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