Post # 1
Hi everyone! I’ve been lurking for awhile and *finally* made an account because I need serious help.
I have no idea what kind of lingerie I should wear for my wedding night. My Fiance and I are both virgins and haven’t really done anything but kiss so this will be our first night for everything 🙂 I’m excited but have no idea what to wear. I want something sexy but not in-your-face-sexy. Any ideas? Links are appreciated! Also, how much lingerie should I buy for the honeymoon? An outfit each night?
A few other questions: I want my fiance to see me the first time in whatever lingerie I get, but I don’t know if I can get my dress off by myself. Any ideas? Also, I feel sort of silly just like coming out of the bathroom in lingerie. It feels silly to me. Any advice? He’s never seen me naked before and I want it to be like a big moment, but have no idea how to do it without feeling kind of ridiculous.
Post # 3
I would get like a cute little see through dress thing like the first pic from victoria’s secret. Sexy but not overly sexy and you can still be comfortable in it and it is white so it goes well with the whole bridal theme. Or even the second pic from victoria’s to because it shows a little more. I think you should get your best girlfriend and go try some stuff on and see what you are comfortable in. And just know he will love you anything you pick 🙂
Post # 4
I cant post pics from my ipad, sorry! but i don’t think you should buy different lingerie for every night. Just being naked is pretty sexy itself 🙂 If you are going for 6/7 nights maybe 4 different pieces? Also, sexy bra and underwear can work too.
Post # 5
I would pick something not too risque for the first night.
Why put more pressure on yourself by choosing something too revealing or too sexy?
If you have not been intimate before, he will love yoou in anything.
I would choose something like this also from VS- simple, elegant and easy for him to remove
Post # 6
@julies1949: Agreed. Don’t try to push the sex kitten envelope if you aren’t comfortable.
Get something like Julie’s posted, a silk nighty, a cute baby doll with undies, etc. As far as changing into it, it’s totally fine to ask him to unzip it and then go to the bathroom to take it off yourself. Sometimes people take a shower first thing case you are wearing a dress for so long and dancing and sweating, you don’t have I have the perfect plan, whatever happens will be fine and work out. For the honeymoon I would not take anything that has too manypieces and I wouldn’t take one for each night, mostly because there are times you will have quickies mid day or it’s just not a good moment to interrupt the passion and go out it on, maybe you are already in bed in the morning etc… Whatever happens you probably won’t go through enough to need one every single day. Enjoy and relax! It’s fun!
ETA: wow bad spelling and grammar. Thanks iPhone!
Post # 7
I think you should go to a lingerie shop, try stuff on, and get whatever you feel most confident in. He will love you in whatever you pick out. And yes, going to the bathroom to change into sexy lingerie just to have him take it off of you is a bit silly, but just go with it, and feel free to laugh at yourselves. A lot of stuff with sex is kind of silly or will make you feel kind of ridiculous. Don’t worry about that, just have a sense of humor about the whole thing as much as you can, and you’ll be fine.
Post # 9
My husband and I were also virgins on our wedding night and I was in the same spot. I looked all over before I found anything! I didn’t want to go sex kitten or anything. I finally went with this:
You can’t really tell, but the gown is pretty sheer. My husband said he really liked that I had a wedding gown for during the day and one for at night. (I took shorter things for the honeymoon). The robe was great because it helped me feel a little more comfortable walking out in the first place and he liked being able to take it off. He still likes it when I wear the robe too.
For the honeymoon, I took 3-4 outfits and then also snitched one of his T-shirts to wear one night (which he really liked).
Hope this helps! Congratulations! 🙂
Post # 10
Why not use your beautiful wedding dress be your lingerie for your first night? Take it slowly and have him help you get out of it.
You’ll have many nights in your future for lingerie, but never again a night to take your wedding dress off together.
Post # 11
@alyssaC: Those babydolls are so cute. Where did you find those?
Post # 12
@bride2bnina: Victoria’s secret, they have an awesome selction and the prices aren’t terrible lol
Post # 13
@alyssaC: Thanks! I am going to look now.
Post # 14
I wore comfortable (non sexy!) underwear under my wedding dress for the day. I changed out of my wedding dress just before leaving the reception because I didn’t want to take it on my honeymoon (and definitely didn’t want someone coming to the hotel the next morning to collect it!). (As for getting the dress off, my MOH helped undo the back, I was alright after that).
At the hotel I went into the bathroom, had a very quick “down there” clean, and changed into my lingerie (lacy bra anad panties), and then put my reception-leaving outfit back on. So from my husband’s point of view I came out of the bathroom in my reception-leaving outfit. Though of course you can come out in lingerie if you want!
My husband commented later in the honeymoon that he didn’t even notice what lingerie I had on on our wedding night, he was so keen to take it off! So I think the lingerie will be appreciated more later in the honeymoon. A different outfit each night sounds a bit much, but it’s up to you.
Good on you for waiting, I’m sure he’ll love what he sees whatever you wear!
Post # 16
I geta lot of stuff from ebay… its cheaper – not the used stuff be careful there. Walmart has a good selection too. Splurge on an item or 2 but there is no reason to spend to much. I got an outfit for each night… 9days… so going to Victorias or Fredricks or the likes can get super expensive