(Closed) Need lingerie help!

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

I would get like a cute little see through dress thing like the first pic from victoria’s secret.  Sexy but not overly sexy and you can still be comfortable in it and it is white so it goes well with the whole bridal theme.   Or even the second pic from victoria’s to because it shows a little more.  I think you should get your best girlfriend and go try some stuff on and see what you are comfortable in.  And just know he will love you anything you pick ๐Ÿ™‚

 

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

I cant post pics from my ipad, sorry! but i don’t think you should buy different lingerie for every night. Just being naked is pretty sexy itself ๐Ÿ™‚ If you are going for 6/7 nights maybe 4 different pieces? Also, sexy bra and underwear can work too.

Post # 5
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I would pick something not too risque for the first night.

Why put more pressure on yourself by choosing something too revealing or too sexy?

If you have not been intimate before, he will love yoou in anything.

I would choose something like this also from VS- simple, elegant and easy for him to remove

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

@julies1949:  Agreed. Don’t try to push the sex kitten envelope if you aren’t comfortable. 

Get something like Julie’s posted, a silk nighty, a cute baby doll with undies, etc. As far as changing into it, it’s totally fine to ask him to unzip it and then go to the bathroom to take it off yourself. Sometimes people take a shower first thing case you are wearing a dress for so long and dancing and sweating, you don’t have I have the perfect plan, whatever happens will be fine and work out. For the honeymoon I would not take anything that has too manypieces and I wouldn’t take one for each night, mostly because there are times you will have quickies mid day or it’s just not a good moment to interrupt the passion and go out it on, maybe you are already in bed in the morning etc… Whatever happens you probably won’t go through enough to need one every single day. Enjoy and relax! It’s fun!

ETA: wow bad spelling and grammar. Thanks iPhone!

Post # 7
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Helper bee

I think you should go to a lingerie shop, try stuff on, and get whatever you feel most confident in. He will love you in whatever you pick out. And yes, going to the bathroom to change into sexy lingerie just to have him take it off of you is a bit silly, but just go with it, and feel free to laugh at yourselves.  A lot of stuff with sex is kind of silly or will make you feel kind of ridiculous.  Don’t worry about that, just have a sense of humor about the whole thing as much as you can, and you’ll be fine.

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

My husband and I were also virgins on our wedding night and I was in the same spot.  I looked all over before I found anything!  I didn’t want to go sex kitten or anything.  I finally went with this:

http://www.elder-beerman.com/shop/intimates/special-occasion/linea-donatella-robe-ivory_221666.html 

and

http://www.elder-beerman.com/shop/intimates/special-occasion/linea-donatella-gown-ivory_221665.html

 

You can’t really tell, but the gown is pretty sheer.  My husband said he really liked that I had a wedding gown for during the day and one for at night.  (I took shorter things for the honeymoon).  The robe was great because it helped me feel a little more comfortable walking out in the first place and he liked being able to take it off.  He still likes it when I wear the robe too.  

 

For the honeymoon, I took 3-4 outfits and then also snitched one of his T-shirts to wear one night (which he really liked).  

 

Hope this helps!  Congratulations! ๐Ÿ™‚ 

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Why not use your beautiful wedding dress be your lingerie for your first night?   Take it slowly and have him help you get out of it.

  You’ll have many nights in your future for lingerie, but never again a night to take your wedding dress off together.

Post # 11
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@alyssaC:  Those babydolls are so cute. Where did you find those?

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

@bride2bnina:  Victoria’s secret, they have an awesome selction and the prices aren’t terrible lol

Post # 13
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@alyssaC:  Thanks! I am going to look now.

Post # 14
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I wore comfortable (non sexy!) underwear under my wedding dress for the day. I changed out of my wedding dress just before leaving the reception because I didn’t want to take it on my honeymoon (and definitely didn’t want someone coming to the hotel the next morning to collect it!). (As for getting the dress off, my MOH helped undo the back, I was alright after that).

At the hotel I went into the bathroom, had a very quick “down there” clean, and changed into my lingerie (lacy bra anad panties), and then put my reception-leaving outfit back on. So from my husband’s point of view I came out of the bathroom in my reception-leaving outfit. Though of course you can come out in lingerie if you want!

My husband commented later in the honeymoon that he didn’t even notice what lingerie I had on on our wedding night, he was so keen to take it off! So I think the lingerie will be appreciated more later in the honeymoon. A different outfit each night sounds a bit much, but it’s up to you.

Good on you for waiting, I’m sure he’ll love what he sees whatever you wear!

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I geta lot of stuff from ebay… its cheaper – not the used stuff be careful there. Walmart has a good selection too. Splurge on an item or 2 but there is no reason to spend to much. I got an outfit for each night… 9days… so going to Victorias or Fredricks or the likes can get super expensive

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