(Closed) Need reassurance after miscarriage

posted 6 years ago in Pregnancy
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Awe sweetie, I am sorry about your miscarraige but I know many people who miscarried and the next try, they had a healthy baby. Just take it easy for the next few months and relax. 

I have never miscarried so I cant pretend to feel what you are feeling but seeing many people in my life go through it and end up having healthy pregnancies is proof that you will be find. 

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I was a successful pregnancy after miscarriage.  My mom miscarried 2 weeks before she conceived me.  🙂  It can definitely happen!  I totally understand the worries though as well… I’ve had 2 miscarriages now and it doesn’t get any easier.  *hugs*  I’ll be praying for a sticky for you!

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

First, I am so, so sorry for your loss. A miscarriage is never easy & many of us on the boards have been through them, myself included. I miscarried naturally in mid February. Darling Husband & I were devastated. It was hard emotionally and mentally, so I made sure I took time to fully process what was happening and deal with my feelings. My doctor advised us to wait one cycle before trying again. We did & in April I found out I was pregnant again. I am now almost 19 weeks & this baby is healthy & doing great. Successful pregnancies are definitely possible after a loss. I hope you get your sticky baby soon! ((hugs))!

Post # 6
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Congrats!! my story is similar to yours. I had a mc in May at 5 weeks and got my BFP about a month later with no period in between. I am now 8 weeks and everything is going well. we saw baby’s heartbeat and everything. I am optimistic and you should be as well. 

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

I’ve seen tons of threads on the bee about where posters talk about getting pregnant after a miscarriage.  Hang in there, and sticky dust.

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@jodyblair:  I think it’s totally natural to be worried! I had a miscarraige in February and juts found out that we’re expecting again this month.  I think that my natural defense is to “prep” myself for the fact that this one MIGHT not work out either- but I have no logical reason to think that.  Like you, my betas and progesterone nubmers were good, and doubling like they’re supposed to- but it’s still hard not to worry.

There probably isn’t much to say to make you feel less nervous, but just know that we can lean on each other for support… and hopefully we’ll be “out of the woods” soon and be able to worry a little less!

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

It will be ok!!!!! I had a miscarriage at 6 weeks and was devastaded.. 2 months later i conceived again and i panicked when i was at work and saw i was bleeding – i was between week 6 and 7. I cried, called my now husband, he drove me to hospital and the ultrasound confirmed i was still pregnant. I’ve never done a pg hormone analisys, don’t know why..the doctor scolded me and said at that stage, best to do was rest and that i should have gone straight home and lay down because there was nothing to be done except wait. So to bed i went..i had some cramps and spotted for a couple of days..then it stopped and now i have a 5 years old amazing girl Smile. So, here’s a good, thruthful story for you!!!!!!

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

congrats on yor pergancy!  i hada  miscarraige last august with my first pregancy and now have a healthy 3 week old baby boy. a healthy baby is possible, stay positive!

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Congratulations! I totally understand the worry! Just try to take it one day at a time and remember that the odds are in your favor. I got pregnant again the first cycle I tried after a mc – it was scary, but this one appears sticky… I’m 21-22 weeks and things are going well! This CAN TOTALLY be your take home baby! Hang in there and PM me any time if you need more support.

 

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

fingers crossed for you!

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@jodyblair:  Thinking nice, HIGH numbers on your beta:)  Let us know how it goes!

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

Good luck on your beta!  When you deal with miscarriage, you’re never going to be 100% confident, but that by no means has anything to do with whether or not it will stick.  Sending lots of positive vibes!

Post # 16
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

Relax.  My family calls it a starter pregnancy and they look at having a miscarriage as getting your body totally ready for the real pregnancy.  Most had no problem getting pregnant right after and then carrying to full term the very next pregnancy.

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